Do you have the 3 strategic tools to THRIVE in these times?
Claim the power of Story, Questions & Hosting. Here's how...
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When times are changing too quickly it can be easy to get stuck...
Often, when we sense the ground shifting beneath our feet, we try to hang on to something familiar. To try to move beyond discomfort as quickly as possible. To try harder with what we already know. This is a natural reaction to change.
But within any disruption are the seeds of possibility. The opportunity to start fresh and to see things in new ways. There is amazing capacity inside of every individual, every group and every system.
There is a potential inside an acorn which can grow into a mighty oak.
Something is possible now that was not possible before. But we can only go there together.
Do you have the strategic tools you need to thrive in these times?
The 3 strategic tools you need
Your questions open the door. Your story acts as a beacon lighting the way. Your capacity to to work together is what brings it all to life.
Questions
Asking a powerful question is the most simple and powerful way to make change.
A powerful question can open the doorway to a fresh perspective; a new way of looking at things. It surfaces assumptions. It stimulates new thinking and invites creativity. It can change everything.
A question can help surface stories holding the wisdom we need now for better ways of living and working together. It can spark the conversations we most need to have. It is an immediate and simple intervention into any system.
Working with powerful questions is both a leadership and a life skill. The capacity to hold space for the bigger question is what we now need in turbulent times.
Story
The most important stories in the world are hidden inside us. Stories are our lens on the world. They frame what we see and who we can be as a result.
Every individual also holds the gold of their lived experience in story form inside them. This is where our deepest wisdom lies.
When we change the collective stories we live in, at work and in the spheres we are part of -- when they are more positive and generative -- life gets better for everyone. Work becomes more fulfilling, community becomes more connected and everyone benefits.
The power of transformation lies in the stories we choose to activate. In life, at work, in society: It's time to tell a better story.
Hosting
A key roles of leadership is holding a vision of the future we are moving towards. But to reach tht future we must co-create it.
Unless you can go there together – even when the going gets tough – you will not have the energy and commitment to make the vision a reality.
Participatory practice offers a way to grow the capacity to host, harvest and move on the conversations that really matter. It profoundly shifts the intention, attention and energy within individuals, groups and systems
When we move from hero to host, focusing on a balance of task and relationship, we create the leverage point to move to wiser action. We unleash the full potential of us all.
Strengthen the elements you need to thrive
Finding ground in times of turbulence needs more than technique. It needs capacity.
Powerful questions open the door to new perspectives and new possibilities. They trigger potent stories carrying the gold of lived experience. Stories in turn lead to compelling conversations. When you then work together to make collective sense and meaning, the whole system moves to higher ground. We get wiser and more capable together.
Together these aspects form a potent strategy. When you work with these elements as an individual, you build personal and interpersonal capacity. When we work with them together -- as leaders in work and life -- we increase energy and the capacity for collective wise action.
When we situate these capacities within a hosting field, the vibrant life of a beehive arises.
SOAR works with building capacity in these core aspects to bring vibrant life to individuals, groups and systems.
Whatever the change you're seeking, the questions you ask, the story you tell and how you host it into life are the secret.
Why stories matter
Hosting brave & transformative spaces
I'm Mary Alice
I work with groups to build the capacities that will bring their vision and potential into focus and action.
I coach people longing to live a larger and more authentic life to uncover and craft the questions, stories and inner compass that calls them to be a leader in that life.
I've been travelling the world and going in and out of organisations, systems, communities and cultures for decades. I discovered that QUESTIONS, STORY and HOSTING are the secret superpower of humanity.
The questions we ask, the stories we tell and how we work with each other create the world we're living in.
Every moment. Every day. Experience by experience.
When these three powerful tools work together they create the roadmap for enabling your purpose to shine out into the world.
I just love working with groups! Here's Brian Tarallo's harvest of my workshop "Change Your Story, Change the World" at the Power of Visuals Week-a-thon. CLICK ON THE IMAGE TO EXPAND IT
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Stories & Questions are your power partners
Discover the power of stories and questions by taking a handcrafted adventure.
- Changing your story is the first step to changing your world.
- A powerful question is a doorway into a whole new perspective on life.
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More to explore -- upcoming live events
THE 5 POWERS
6 online sessions / Starts 28 October
You know how that feels, don't you? There's a big idea out there with your name on it, but you're not sure how to keep people together for long enough to make something great together.
You're wondering what the simple practices are that can help people step in, step up and keep going when the going gets tough. You wonder what will help to encourage everyone to take leadership. What will help community to grow
THE 5 POWERS came out of 50 years combined experience working with groups and asking ourselves what we'd learned that makes groups successful beyond the methods, the frameworks and all the theories.
Join Mary Alice Arthur to explore the simple practices that create leadership and community everywhere. Already put into practice in the field, this is the first time THE 5 POWERS has been offered publicly.
Full details & Register here
Got a question that matters
Thirsty for answers?
Longing for more but don't know how to get there? Join a Flow Game to get joyfully and playfully unstuck, and back on track in only 2.5 hours. Personalised coaching & targeted wisdom in an intimate small group setting.
CONSIDER THIS: Getting yourself to where you want to be in your life is not about trying harder to get the right answers. It's about playfully asking the right question and receiving the wisdom that's already waiting for you.
Wait, what? Could it be that easy?
Have you ever thought to yourself that if you only had the right answer, then all of life would fall into place?
What if it is all about about asking the right questions and bringing a sense of playful ease to what you discover as a result?
The intimate setting of a Flow Game helps you find the wisdom to take on your life with confidence, courage and energy.
You'll get personal, focused coaching and the wisdom of a small group of up to 8 other players.
A Flow Game helps you find the wisdom to take on your life with confidence, courage and energy.
It's the best 2.5 hours you could invest in yourself!
Onsite & Online
Become a FLOW GAME Host
The Flow Game is a playful way to take action on what really matters.
It is a combination of stimulating questions, wise coaching and deep reflection. Questions become the the entrée into a fun and easy tool that creates wise council for burning issues.
All over the world, Flow Game hosts are using the game in new and inspiring ways -- with individuals, with teams, in organisations and communities.
In what fresh and new ways could the Flow Game help uplift and support your work and life?
Flow Game Host trainings are regularly coming up both onsite and online. The next training I'm offering:
- October 9 - 11, 2026 in Denmark
- Online second half of 2026
- April 16 - 18, 2027 in Berlin
Find out how you can join us...
Is now your time to become a Flow Game Host?
Online & In Person
The Art of Powerful Questions
Two opportunities to learn more about the leadership skills and art of powerful questions.
The leaders of the future will not merely be those with expertise, certainty, or control. They will be those who know how to pause, sense, inquire, and invite collective intelligence into the room.
Finding, crafting and working with powerful questions is now an essential leadership and facilitation skill. In this deep and participatory offering you'll learn why questions are so important, how they work and how to work with them.
You'll come away with strategic and actionable input for your work and life. This is learning you can put into practice immediately!
Our in person offering in Berlin is ideal for facilitators, team leaders and those who work in groups, where questions are the key to good process
Join me either in person or online to find, craft and sharpen a question that matters to you now and then to experience taking that question into the Flow Game to receive some good wisdom from your peers.
This offering is supported by Flow Game hosts from around the world.
Click the button to find out more about both of these options.
"I turned to Mary Alice for support in a critical time in my work to successfully navigate a difficult merger and rebuild the team. I consider the coaching and support key factors in the success of this project. Her warm and wise presence by my side empowered me and impacted the entire organization with lasting results."
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Former Strategic Partnerships Manager, Uniting Care, Queensland, Australia
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