Why is understanding story so important?
Most people believe that stories live in the pages of books, but the most important stories in the world are hidden. They live inside us. They are created through the meaning we make of our experiences. Day by day. Moment by moment.
The stories we hold are our lens on the world. They frame what we see and who we can be as a result. They determine our agency -- our ability to take action and make impact.
Whether you see possibilities or problems, competition or potential colleagues depends on your story. Most people aren't even aware their story is in the driver's seat and they are being taken for a ride, all the while wishing desperately to go down a different road.
This happens both for individuals and systemically.
Here's the thing: We live in a story and that means we can change it.
Changing your personal story is the first step towards living the future you want. When you claim your story, you learn to trust yourself and your impact expands. You shine brighter and the world will beat a path to your door.
When we change the stories we live in collectively, at work and in the spheres we are part of -- when they are more positive and generative -- life gets better for everyone. Work becomes more fulfilling, community becomes more connected and everyone benefits.
The power of transformation lies in the stories we choose to activate. In life, at work, in society: It's time to tell a better story.
Story is all about agency -- your ability to take action. Have a listen...
The aspects of great storymaking
Telling a better story is about more than technique. If you want to lead with story, you need more than a simple list of elements. SOAR works with five core aspects to bring story to life within individuals and systems.
Together these aspects form a potent strategy. When you work with your own stories, you build personal and interpersonal capacity. When we work with stories together -- as leaders in work and life -- we increase our capacity for collective wise action.
Whatever the change you're seeking, your story -- and how you host it into life -- is the key.
What is Story Activism?
Hosting brave & transformative spaces
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What's the most important story in the world? It's the one you tell yourself.
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THE STORY DOJO is an online community for exploring, ideating and practicing all aspects of story.
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I'm Mary Alice & I'm a Story Activist
I've been travelling the world and going in and out of organizations, systems, communities and cultures for decades. In working with both individuals and groups, I realized STORY is the secret superpower of humanity. The stories we tell are creating the world we're living in. Every moment. Every day. Story by story.
YOUR STORY IS YOUR FOUNDATION & YOUR KEY TO THE FUTURE -- the roadmap for enabling your purpose in the world.
Your story acts as a beacon lighting the way. What most people don't realize is that you aren't stuck with the current situation -- you can make the choice to activate a better story.
I guide people longing to live a larger and more authentic life to uncover and craft the story that compels them to live that life. And I work with groups to find the stories that will bring their vision and potential into focus and action.
JUST FINDING YOUR STORY IS NOT ENOUGH, YOU NEED TO BRING IT TO LIFE -- especially if the story involves others.
Taking action to live your own story -- and working with others to help a new story take root in the world -- is vital. And there are so many stories that need changing now! I'm a great storyteller, but I'm even better at coaching people to hone the capacity to activate and empower stories to life.
How you take action, especially with others, matters. And with a story and skill, anyone can make change in themselves and in this world!
My book, my story community, the programs I offer and how I work as a Story Activist are the ways I'm making my contribution to grow our individual and collective futures.
I just love working with groups! Here's Brian Tarallo's harvest of my workshop "Change Your Story, Change the World" at the Power of Visuals Week-a-thon. CLICK ON THE IMAGE TO EXPAND IT
Isn't it time to bring a new Story to life?
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Join THE STORY DOJO for the Foundation Member's price
THE STORY DOJO is a vibrant online community dedicated to supporting you to find your compelling story and bring it to life.
A comprehensive step-by-step journey, each month we take a different look at the power of stories and storytelling following my book 365 ALIVE! Find your voice. Claim your story. Live your brilliant life. Membership includes two live meetings per month, personal coaching, a digital library and much more.
Membership is usually $27 per month and $270 annually, but during January and February you can join us for the Foundation Member's price of $20 per month (more details HERE) or $200 annually (more details HERE).
A simple way to kickstart your storytelling
It's been a tough couple of years. It would be easy to think we're living in story of despair or breakdown, but what if we want it to be different?
If our stories create our future, then let's start with the stories that will make a difference.
Stories remind us of good times we've had, memories we've gathered, and what we've learned through the tough times.
We CAN change the world. One love story at a time…
It's simple and easy. Every day for 28 days, you'll receive a digital postcard with a short prompt.
Use it to think about a memory, a story or an appreciation. Write it down and send it to someone you care about. There's no better time then now for us to remind each other who we can be together.
P.S. This is also a quick and easy way to begin to work with your own stories and unleash your creativity!
Online March 1
Play a Flow Game
The beginning of the year is a perfect moment for self reflection, deep listening and being in a circle of generous hearts. It's a great time to get the wisdom to put your best foot forward in 2024.
A Flow Game is a playful way to talk about what really matters. Let's face it -- we could all use more fun while we move in the direction of our dreams!
Take time for YOU & step into the next moment with clarity
I'm offering Flow Games with a variety of timings. No matter where you are in the world, one of them should suit you.
It's the best 2.5 hours you could invest in yourself!
Come and play a Flow Game with me!
Interested in becoming a Flow Game Host?
I'm co-hosting an onsite training in Denmark October 18 - 20 with Flow Game creator Toke Møller. Places are still available.
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"I turned to Mary Alice for support in a critical time in my work to successfully navigate a difficult merger and rebuild the team. I consider the coaching and support key factors in the success of this project. Her warm and wise presence by my side empowered me and impacted the entire organization with lasting results."
Consultant & coach, Slovakia
"Mary Alice has been a guide on our journey of service transformation in different ways over seven years. She brings crisp clarity, sharp focus, deep wisdom and a collection of stories that create space for potent conversations and insights."
Fromer Strategic Partnerships Manager, Uniting Care, Queensland, Australia
"Mary Alice has the sort of grounded presence that can hold a group of any size. I experienced her leading one of the best conferences I've attended. Many people are competent and skilled. Mary Alice has that extra spark that makes her truly inspirational."
Founder, The Grove Consultants International, USA